A church matron, a Baptist-born, by-God saint once told me that every time a woman has sex before marriage, she gives away a tiny piece of herself. I note that she made no mention of men, but that aside, she expounded, said that if a girl gives away too many tiny pieces, she'll find herself incomplete. I was sixteen when she said this. I am thirty-six now. I do not believe her. Is the complete self of a woman (or man) reduced to sexuality? Are we summed up by the sins of our past?
A shopping-mall Santa once said that every time a child says "I don't believe," an elf or fairy dies. Platitudes and leg-pulling aside, this is cruel. [tweetherder]Can doubt be beaten back by fear and shame?[/tweetherder]
Yesterday, I logged onto Facebook and saw the news of the Palestinian children who were murdered while playing on the beach. In the comment thread of one avatar's status update, a war of words ensued. As good Americans (not to say anything of Christians) we must side with Israel to the death! As humanitarian activists (not to say anything of Christians) we must call the Israelies to account! Opinions flew with the rocket's red glare. I wondered; is anyone listening anymore? Are we listening to the children, or are we just engaging in our own ideological wars?
I've been watching social media girations, and the questions that these girations beg are age-old. Are we reduced to the sum of our sexuality, or the sins of our past? Can doubt (in God, politics, the market) be beaten back by fear and shame? Is anyone listening to the children anymore, or are we too wrapped up in our own ideologies?
I once read that St. Francis prayed, "Most High, Glorious God, enlighten the darkness of my heart, and grant me... a perfect charity." Ah charity. Whatever happened to charity?